Quote Originally Posted by seriouslynosn View Post
Some find it annoying and call me needy, some ignore it.

(My need probably can't be filled until I have a Dom, which is something I have never found irl)
I'm somewhat needy. Ok, I'm a lot needy, but I try so very hard not to be. I always feel rather foolish for crying about not being called or asked to come over when I find out there was some major catastrophe he had to deal with. *sigh*

Where have you been lookin', darlin'? I found one within a week at collarme.

Quote Originally Posted by moptop View Post
Although I have grown out of it, I was very much a Daddy's girl when younger, in as much as all my partner's were older, father-figures, and I looked to them for guidance and (non-physical) discipline - but also for unconditional love, however badly I behaved. And I did push that bit... This was in a totally non-bdsm-aware context, but the relationships still hold true to that style.
I noticed my partners got progressively older when I started dating in my teens. I went from dating guys my age to dating seniors....to dating adults...and eventually wound up marrying a man 11 years older than me. When I divorced him, I went the opposite way at first, dating guys significantly younger. They're fun for awhile! *weg* However, I've wound up with a much older man again. I prefer not to be the more mature partner in the relationship.

Unconditional love....*sigh* That's what I want, too. I also push that "badly behaved" bit because I want to know he'll stay and love me no matter what. Abandonment issues, anyone?!?!