When is fantasy better left fantasy?

[gagged_Louise]

lol i was going to say that in my op but then i realised it didnt apply to me...whenever my mum gave me the 'nice girls dont do that' lectures i knew it must be something pretty damn good and i just went ahead and did it lol

Very good point. And what mothers sometimes don't understand (for both sons and daughters), you need the space to make your own mistakes and learn from those, without having those mistakes (or points when it nearly went wrong) flung in your face by Mom over and over years later. The idea that things are only worth doing if you do them perfectly right the first time is destructive.