Quote Originally Posted by dungeonlover View Post
My wife does not acccept this life style.
Welcome to the site.

I'm assuming by the above statement that you have already discussed your interests with your wife?

If not, I would, as the others have said, communicate your desires. However, should she not share your proclivity for this lifestyle, I don't envy the life-altering decisions you will have to face.

1. Divorce
2. Live a life of deceit (which will, no doubt, ultimately lead to divorce)
3. Dicuss with her the possibility of you exploring this lifestyle, whilst remaining in "wedded bliss." (In which case, if she agrees, boundaries would need to be established).
4. Suppress your cravings and submit to your wife's ideals.

Obviously, there are no easy answers for you and no help to be had. Search your soul and do what's right for both you and your wife.