Real quick retrospective thing I did...
So, for my first time meeting someone, I had given my phone number to a person I had talked to from a fetish site. We hadn't actually 'met' before, in person. Well anyways, I used that person as my safe call, guys need them too I suppose.. anyways, probably was a bad idea for a few reasons:
1) This person was like me, and doesn't want to be outed at all. If I hadn't called back, maybe the person would rather not have to explain to people how we know each other, the situation, etc.
2) This person has no reason to believe my story at all.. For all this person knows, I may have been the crazy one.
Just throwing that out there was probably a bad idear on my part.