He changes his mind/decision to take into account her wishes in which case who is leading and who following.
So, a General leading his men into battle hearing new intel from a Private, cannot change his battle plans because this makes the Private the new leader? It changes the power structure in an environment heavily dependant on Top-down leadership?
Or does the General change his battle plan to include the intel given to him by the Private, and he is known as a Wise General?

D/s power dynamics is no different. My Dom doesn't stay His course because it would change our power dynamics... In fact, He has apologised to me before, something that makes Him an even better Leader in my opinion.

YMMV