I know this is an old thread but I felt compelled to add my two cents.

I had a Dom do the orgasm control thing with me. It had bad results.

I had to tell him if I was close to cumming. Sometimes he would tell me I had permission to cum but other times he would continue the stimulation but tell me over and over I was not allowed to cum. I learned to stop my orgasms on command. The problem was I had a really hard time learning to cum on command.

Next thing I knew, I couldn't cum, period. Permission or no. No orgasms for weeks. Why or how it happened we could never quite figure out.

All I know is orgasm control is not something I look forward to trying again. The whole experience made me feel so inadequate and bad as a submissive. So many weeks spent not being able to do as I was told were heart wrenching. He would command me to cum and I couldn't.

Has anybody had any good results to share and maybe help me let go of the fear of ever trying it again?

Karen