I think one of the reasons I don't like cyber is for the lack of emotional connection. Aftercare in my case differs depending on the scene, a really intense scene of whipping, flogging, and prolonged excitement would require more aftercare then just a slap and tickle.

I had a scene with some needles and fire where once it was over I just moved to the couch while another person had their turn with needles and I experienced subdrop while I watched her connection with the Dom and realized all of what i was missing.