Well if you'd like my opinion- I spent more than 20 years trying to ignore my B&D urges. Until I finally found peace in wanting to become a Dom.

Like many of us, I'd have a nice collection of magazines & toys- feel disgusted with the whole thing & throw them away.

As with most things in life, bondage & D/s is a journey of self-discovery. To have the courage to be a part of this kind of caring community would sure help.

All I can say is don't rush into things, & do as I tell my girls 'notice how it feels.'

Oh & my own personal discovery- this is about ME, not about someone elses rules!

You listen to those emotions àiteag- they are what this is all about.


Tojo