Actually I felt I had to take off my avatar (which was my own photo)and haven't posted since some people found me on this site. It affected me a lot and really made me reconsider, because of my work.

Slightly off-topic, as I don't work in any of those professions, but my job is very much internet based, I have a website and photos in various places, and it didn't help me to be so out in the open here, because I am very much on the net in a more professional setting. I couldn't afford for my participation here to lose me clients and money.

Apologies for the absence to everyone that has been kind enough to talk to me on the boards and also privately. I still read you all when I can.

Also, I would like to let you all know that I am very happy to have since found someone strictly compatible