Quote Originally Posted by Tojo View Post
Here you go brattyone- this topic has been covered before, but it's something that's often mentioned & I know many of us are in the same boat.

Myself, I'm very happily married to a wonderful sexy woman who I've been with for 18 years- married for 15 of them.

I have my very own girl I've been online with for almost a year now, my sweet lisa. (talking to her as I do this actually)

I've had various online things & plan on meeting 'someone' in a few months for a r/l encounter. A strictly no-sex encounter I might add, & my wife does know- she doesn't know however, that I'll be packing some ropes....

Curious myself to hear of anyone's experiences- please let's not let this be spoilt by 'r/l is better' comments. I think that's what stops many people on forums talking about online relationships.

Is your marriage a happy one? Why do you do it? Would you leave your spouse for your D/s partner? Would you meet them in r/l? Is is cheating?
When does it become cheating?

Tojo
First off, let Me say that My wife and I are swingers. now with that siad, i will answer the questions.

No, My marriage is very rocky.I have a real life slave who worships Me.I do it because My wife will not satisfy My BDSM needs. As far as would I leave My wife for My slave? In a heartbeat if circumstances were different.
R/R?, Yes. Have already.No, In My situation its not cheating. I believe cheating is done without consent or knowledge. My wife knows and supports it. As I said, we are swingers.

Master C