Well, being too lazy to read every post, (sorry), I HAVE to add to this, My BDSM life began online, about a year ago.

Became very enamered with the whole control aspect, met a real painslut, whom btw has a R/L Master, that just could keep up with her needs, so she was allowed o/l release sessions I'll say.

I digress, I after several months and numerous trials, took a sub, she was married as am I. Her and I had a wonderful repoire, and were as much friends as a D/s couple. This lasted for several months, until her other Master contacted Me....ooops, lol, seems she had blown her cover, so I ended the relationship, due to her lack of honesty.

Some time went by, became close off and on to several more, but never took another as Mine. Well, thoughts of leaving home to be in a position to live this R/T F/T were dancing in My head. I had mentioned some aspects of BDSM to My wife, but got very little response. Disappointed as she and I have had a true love since meeting, but My need to be a Master was calling hard.

Finally she confronted Me about My online activities, Thank God! After a very stressful day, I took her out for a drink, neutral ground you know, and quietly explained My needs, My desires and presented her with a question, Are you Willing to Serve Me As I Need It?

Thanfully she said yes!!!! Asked I be patient as she grows, of course I was ecstatic! Oour relationship has NEVER been better, nor has the sex.

All that said to say this, she considered My o/l time cheating, she said the hiding, the secretiveness in her mind constituted cheating. I of course, disagreed as I never met the person(s).

Wwe got thru all of that, but I told her I had lots of friends and aquaintances online and was not going to stop communicating that way. she only asked I be open, honest and maybe involve her, introduce her etc. All of which I was so very happy to do.

So far shes become friends with a couple of the girls I know, and Wwe've even had 2 cyber sessions with a girl I'm close to, together....now that was hott!

Am I happy, ohhhhhhyeah

Is Oour marriage a good one? One of the best I know or have seen.

Why do I do it? I really dont know, I love making girls cum, and as long as hardgirl, (wife) is aware of it, and understands the need I have to do it, I really dont sit around and analyze it.

Would I leave My wife? Never.

Would I meet My O/L sub/slave? If it was an honest relationship, shes able to accept My wifes authority over her, and shes bi, Hell Yes!!

Do I consider it cheating? I'm not touching that, but in My/Oour case, no, not now anyway.