I'm a feminist also, but not the conventional one. I completely agree with everything that lily just said. The feminist movement, the way it has been going, is only doing harm for women in general. The way that I subscribe to feminism is that I don't think that women should have so much pressure on themselves to be cosmetically perfect all the time. Don't interpret this the wrong way; I'm not saying women should never wear makeup or shave their legs or try to look good. I know that it's fun to dress up and look stunning sometimes, it really is fun. What I'm saying is they shouldn't feel like shit if they go outside one day without spending time sprucing themselves up. It's honestly so sad how far women have been pushed in regards to their expectations. I'm a substitute teacher sometimes at the local schools, and it's really disgusting for me to view the social interactions of those kids...not only as a psychologist, but as a human being.
That being said, it's this way with a lot of movements, a lot of my favorite movements. It's frustrating. They're all working against themselves. One example at the front of my mind is sexual orientation discrimination. When activists stand up for the rights of gay/bi/trans sexuals, what they're doing in essence is *seperating* those individuals from the rest of the populace. Do we really need to isolate them more? The original problem is that the normal community shuns them. It's ridiculous. I do believe that someone needs to stand up for their rights but the current activists are going about it absolutely wrong!
As per the original question; your submissiveness has nothing to do with your feminist views. Being a feminist is something that is on a broad scale, encompassing everyone that it influences; namely women. Your submissiveness only deals with you as an individual, and your craving for something. Do you think that all womens should be enslaved and kept in shackles? I doubt it. So feel free in your submissiveness, it's something you have that most people don't. It lets you be happy so don't throw it away. From an acutely feminist point of view; it would be wrong of you to deny women the *choice* of submissiveness. But seriously, it's fine, for all the reasons I just gave.
Enjoy,
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