Its because of of the reasons that Lily stated that I will never call myself a feminist. I think a lot of the equality movements go to far with things. Everyone should be treated equal but so many of the movements want reparations for the past and really they want to be treated better adn given things because they were previously in a lower position. I took a women studies class in college a few years ago and it was nothing but bashing men, the military, and republicans, it was also durign the semester we invaded Iraq. Ireally felt that it was a women are superior adn shoudl control everrythign in the world, be cause we are motherly adn don't fight or cause violence and we know how to talk adn make everythign happy so men shut the fuck up and sit quietlyin a corner until we ack you too do something attitude. The teacher also got on my nerves because she found out I was wiccan and couldn't understand why i did feel the same way about all of this because I worshiped the goddess and nature. I reminded her there is also a god in wicca and is equal with the goddess..... Ok now I am just rambling on about things back to teh point of this thread

Being submissive in one area of your life doesn't mean you are any less equal over all. I am still an alpha female, reguardless of whether I submit or not. I actually think that submission makes you a stronger person in other areas of your life, because you then know what it is like to do things for others. How many of todays feminists have actually really expirienced the oppression that previous generations have. i also don't look at being submissive as being opressed. Oppression is a forced state and you don't have any control over what is being done. Being a submissive you still have the option of saying a safeword and everything stops or ending the relationship with your Master. You have a choice in what is being done to you and you choose to endure because you enjoy it.