ObayMe, your right its not far.... We can manage, what, 10 seconds of truly gratify sensations of orgasm, and thats stretching it. A lady can stretch one orgasm for almost as long as she can or is able to.

I will say for me that the difference in orgasms for me is not in the orgasm itself but the feeling afterwords. This depends on position, mood, and current situation. Sweet, slow love making, while very gratifying, afterwords i usually have more energy then when i started. In retrospect i can feel totally drained after orgasming deep in her when she is on all fours.

On still another hand is blow jobs. i love to get them, but not all the way to cumming, now wait, don't get me wrong, cumming down her throat is one of the greatest feelings in the world, but, afterwords i feel so drained that i literally feel that she has sucked the life right out of me. I mean, words do not do her justice when it come to how it feels. But, this being the case i don't want it to often because i am left with no energy to server her needs afterwords, even in D/s i want to know that unless there is a good reason for it she gets her earth shattering orgasm too.

Ok, but this raises two questions for me. One, for guys, Have you ever had an achy pain in ball after you cum? That lasts for a few hours afterwords?

And Ladies? How often during orgasms do you loss control? As in, convulse wildly, arch up off the bed and are stuck there until the orgasm stops, or anything else that your body automatically when you orgasm?