I guess I can relate to your worry and question. My Dom says I'm a "needy sub." He brought this up when he was explaining "protocols" between Doms and subs as well as what type of Sub our friend is. She's a "provoking sub." He explained the difference and it bothers me a little. I'm gonna talk with him about it when he get home later. I don't think it is possible to be too submissive. I think it depends on what the Dom/Master expects from you. It can take a very long while to learn that and you both need patience for it. I mean I found out this past weekend that my Dom knows me so much better than I know myself. We've been together 2 years or will be on Dec 11th. [squee]

I pretty much agree with everyone else on this one. There is no possibility there is an idea or fathom of "Too Submissive." Submission is a matter of opinion of the Sub/Slave or Dom/Master. Who ever said that is stupid and doesn't know how to communicate properly.