Humilation Debate

[jennjenn]

you can call me a dirty little slut and i'll just get wet. call me ugly and i'll go after you tooth and nail.~ smiles this actually made me burst into a fit of giggles. I think more submissive women enjoy humil than would admit. For me personally, to even admit to people that i enjoy to be humiliated if difficult. Its a terrible word do not you think. If you look around this forum there have been several women who have come forward and said oh i like this but not this.. i agree it becomes what is within you limits of humiliation. I personally don't like any comment that is meant to be mean. I once asked someone why he thought i may enjoy ..something.. and he simply stated that i enjoyed it because i was a slut. Just as though sitting around the table he announced the bread was brown. It was not meant rudely ..just a matter of fact and i was quite taken aback by this response unsure of what to make of it. I decided that it was quite within our relationship to say that. I am in agreeance however about the attack on ones intelligence. I do not enjoy mean people. That seems to be the hardest lines for a female submissive given the responses on this thread. Do not belittle our intelligence. Any theories why that seems to be an unapproachable limit? Very insightful comments ... i have enjoyed this thread. =)

[Hime]

you can call me a dirty little slut and i'll just get wet. call me ugly and i'll go after you tooth and nail.~ smiles this actually made me burst into a fit of giggles. I think more submissive women enjoy humil than would admit. For me personally, to even admit to people that i enjoy to be humiliated if difficult. Its a terrible word do not you think. If you look around this forum there have been several women who have come forward and said oh i like this but not this.. i agree it becomes what is within you limits of humiliation. I personally don't like any comment that is meant to be mean. I once asked someone why he thought i may enjoy ..something.. and he simply stated that i enjoyed it because i was a slut. Just as though sitting around the table he announced the bread was brown. It was not meant rudely ..just a matter of fact and i was quite taken aback by this response unsure of what to make of it. I decided that it was quite within our relationship to say that. I am in agreeance however about the attack on ones intelligence. I do not enjoy mean people. That seems to be the hardest lines for a female submissive given the responses on this thread. Do not belittle our intelligence. Any theories why that seems to be an unapproachable limit? Very insightful comments ... i have enjoyed this thread. =)

Yeah, you're right. Comments about my body, calling me slut, etc don't bother me, but insulting my intelligence would definitely be over the line. I guess it just depends on what's more important to the people in question, but to me, my intelligence is definitely more important.

[TomOfSweden]

..something.. and he simply stated that i enjoyed it because i was a slut.

I'd just like to point out that all people are sluts at heart. "Slut" is just another word for someone who is sexualy emancipated. There's no shame in being horny, which is the whole basis for the word "slut". I still like saying it to my slave though.

I think you enjoy it because it has a negative connotation, no matter how nonsensical it is.