I'm an immoralist. I don't believe in any universal morals. It's all down to what works for people that they're interacting with. Trying to be something you're not is always bad for you.
Passing judgement on others is always what petty people do and is the only reason why virtues exist. The impossible ideal is only to be able to put others down. It was always bullshit. I'm just sorry you had to suffer through it as a kid. But I guess we're all trapped in this situation of being expected to be something we're not by any culture. Age has taught me otherwise.
It's always fun to identify the virtues and see which people get fooled by a virtous image and then play them for it. People doing their hardest to emit an image are always fake once you start scraping a bit.
It isn't all bad. The more boundaries there are to break, the more fun humiliation games are![]()