I feel much like Vistana - principally sexual submissive only, I like to please - sometimes; I am not service-oriented at all (well put, Vistana, thank you). Whilst I love carrying out instructions during the day, they are dressing/mastubatory instructions only, and they are not permitted (by me, i.e. limit) to cause people to wonder at me within my 'vanilla' relationships, and to put me in a submissive relationship with the rest of the world. I am and am known as a strong minded woman, considered a natural leader, and I will stay that way, except with Them.

Although I am easily subdued to trembling putty by The Look or tone of voice I have not yet had the opportunity to see if I will counter it in every day life, with current partners. I don't know to what extent I can be maintained in thrall. Am only just discovering my enjoyment of other women - well, a.n.other woman. I am into bondage, constriction, spanking, cropping, whipping, toys. Toys. I love toys. I have a small suitcase of clothes to go to India with, and almost the same again of toys, just invested in several different remote control ones, such fun. Anyone know whether they show up as suspicious on x-rays at airports?

Whilst in India, am also expecting to find out whether I can switch to Domme with my man, who has definitely indicated some submissive tendencies. I suspect I could get very, very into it, rather like my Domme has discovered with me - that is her first switch, previously only hetero sub, although she has previously had a relationship with a woman. A lot of head scratching going on, but hey, learning's fun!