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I know of a number of couples who met as a result of communities such as this, wherein they posted together, got to know one another and then found a basis to build a relationship.

Dont' limit the scope of what you are seeking in a partner. There are many people out there who define themselves as "adventurous." Then there are women who define themselves as "switches." In both cases, one never knows where things will lead.

No, Dominant women are not all in it for the money. I would hazard a guess that that is the exception, not the rule. Otherwise, wouldn't Dommes for hire be much less expensive than they are????