hmmm...when i think of topping from the bottom, i think of a submissive trying to manipulate her Dom or the situation to her liking. now i know a lot of subs are sitting there saying "oh no! i'd never try to manipulate him!" and i'm in that same boat...i would never INTENTIONALLY manipulate him. but sometimes we do it without realizing what we are doing.

i don't consider being ornery as topping from the bottom. i just consider it to be...well...ornery! lol and hell we all get ornery from time to time! ~smiles~