Is it topping from the bottom or orneriness?

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I've always grew up to understanding orneriness to meaning playful and being silly. Now, I do have this side to me. I love to laugh. I say quick witted things just to get and quick response from Master. It's usually a swat. I love it. Sometimes, I need to feel him, others I need the domination.

Is this topping from the bottom?

No, thats playful

In some thread some where I read where a sub teased her Master by masterbating in the hallway of their apartment. The Master was talking to a guest and from where he was sitting the the room he had perfect view of her but the other person did not. Later he punished her for being naughty (playfully I beleive) but in response to his post some said his sub was topping from the bottome.....why? Why couldn't this be looked upon as orneriness, or playfulness by the sub?

Is this topping from the bottom?

No this is also playful

One night I decided I was tired of being up on the back burner where my ex was concerned. I knelt in front of him, explained how I needed him and loved him. He walked away....I lost my temper from the rejection and we had a yelling match.

Is this topping from the bottom?

it could have been, depending on your intent...

I mean, I am careful with how I do things so as to NOT top from the bottom. One thing I love about my Master is that he likes my playful side and doesn't mind my "orneriness". I hate when someone from outside says "she tops from the bottom". I know Master will have his say if I cross the line. So, why is it, that others think they have the right to say or judge..who is topping from the bottom?

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Its all perspective.