Is it topping from the bottom or orneriness?

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On the other hand, if it is done spitefully or maliciously, it is a dangerous and detrimental act that threatens the D/s or BDSM relationship. It becomes an issue of control and can escalate into and open struggle for dominance in the relationship. I have seen some self confessed subs who do everything in their power to manage and control the entire relationship from the bottom side.
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I think this is where the problem of if it is a good or bad think to top from the bottom really lies.
I have known someone also who wanted to manage and control the entire situation. Didn't work and was very short lived.
I wouldn't consider another such situation even if only online. No way.