Well, you're certainly not alone in this. I think all of the important things have really been said. I've also been in an abusive relationship, and it definitely is something that you need to realize, you can overcome. Like everyone has said, it will take time and trust, but you can most certainly achieve success.

To others who have posted, this has been a help to me too. Don't want to hijack anything. I just want to say that all the sharing has nearly brought me to tears.