Well, I can't really say for sure if my partner is totally turned off by anything kinky, it has taken me quite some time for him to do a few things, like hair pulling and nipple pinching, but he won't go any further than that right now. So while I do know that he does enjoy it, he seems to want to stop at that. I won't push him, but will keep on suggesting in subtle ways to try other things. I can't coherce him to do things he is just not comfortable with.