Whatever relationship I am in, I will always be submissive, because it is an intrigal part of me. I think I could give up the kinky sex, but however wonderful the guy was, I cannot imagine finding balance or completion outside of a D/s relationship.

Before I was shown that I was submissive I tried, and it always failed.

Anyway, I live with a wonderful Dominant man, and have no intention of leaving him, and I also have a great online friendship with a Dominant man, and am very happy as I am. Sorry about that - your question just made me feel so grateful for the relationships which I enjoy.

cariad