Quote Originally Posted by cadence View Post
Here is my question - Would you give up being a Dom or sub for a vanilla realationship, because you found someone who wasn't into that and you really wanted a relationship with them? And also would you be willing to give up any kinky bedroom sex as well? I am just curious to know if you would and why.
No, or to quote Zapata. "It's better to die standing than to live on your knees".

Life is too short. It isn't worth it. I'd rather be single than have unfullfilling relationship.