The results may be different depending on where you start. Start as having a bf that goes out with you (vanilla), date him, and then marry him; he might or might not go Dom.
But: start going out with someone who IS a Dom; and then live with him or marry him, and your hands, wrists, ankles, nipples and other parts will get busy. Pretty much on a daily basis, even if you don't get him to penetrate you every day...