Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
I am not trying to say that the subs should be out in public wearing handcuffs or collar and leash. About year and a half ago I had a sub that wanted to be my slave but when we were out in public or with vanilla friends she would say witty things to me like "get it yourself", "how is that my problem", even worse was "why should I".

Part of what I was ranting about is allowing the vinillas to make you ashamed of what you are. Again don't go out of your way to let them know but be proud of who you are. If they don't understand that is their problem but when you hide it it becomes your problem.
I see absolutely no excuse for acting that way in public just so the vanilla world won't guess your lifestyle preference. I treat my Master with the exact same respect (and occasional sauciness) in front of my family and friends and in public, as I do when we are alone. I still call him Master whenever I feel it is appropriate and often call him Sir in front of people as saying "yes Sir" can always be mistaken as an endearment in the nilla world as well. I will wait on him and bring him his food or beverages and often sit at his feet if the room is crowded as well. I enjoy doing these things not only because I am blessed to be his submissive, but also because I love him very much and I am receiving pleasure from doing so. It also doesn't hurt matters any that he is also just as respectful and kind to me and will voice a request in a pleasant way and thank me when I have done something for him. I consider myself a full time submissive and would not feel comfortable or worthy of his collar if I behaved any differently. "Peace" ~blizz~
PS: Thank you so much Sir_Russell for these amazing pictures. I am enjoying them thoroughly!