Quote Originally Posted by Cage View Post
But the transition from "vanilla" to "24/7 slavery" is not a cliff that you have to jump off. Those are just 2 ends of a spectrum, with an near-infinite number of tiny steps in between. It's up to every person to decide where the sweet spot is for them on that spectrum, and then presumably try to find one or more other people who want to hang out in that sweet spot with them. And also note that the sweet spot can change over time.
thank you. thank you. thank you. this is *exactly* my philosophy, that The Life is a spectrum, and that every single point along that spectrum is EQUALLY VALID for the people who find their balance and bliss there.

~elyse