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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
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    I do have a question for you, "what makes a Dom real"
    and you could also answer what makes a sub real.
    Russell
    I tend to ramble on so I am going to try very hard to keep this brief.

    A Dominant and a submissive are both "real" when they have the true craving to be Dominant or submissive in their hearts and minds and souls , no matter what part of this lifestyle they chose to,or are able to embrace. Once a part of a D/s union of any kind, they are then honest, sincere, loving and respectfful of each other, as well as being understanding and tolerant of each others concerns, weaknesses, limits and fears. I know of many very loving and "real" online D/s realtionship where there is a very close and intense bond even though they may never meet, and I know some real life D/s unions that are nothing more than a cover for an abusive personality taking advantage of a weaker one under the guise of Dominant and submissive. In my humble opinion, a true Dominant AND a true submissive can be summed up in three words; one who is willing to treat the other with trust, honor and respect. "peace" ~blizz~
    "Do you know, ultimately," I asked, "who will prove to be your one best trainer?" "No, Master," she said. "You, yourself," I said, "the girl, herself, eager to please, imaginative and intelligent, monitoring her own performances and feelings, striving lovingly to improve and refine them. You yourself will be largely responsible for making yourself the superb slave you will become."
    Page 210 - Savages of Gor

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    Quote Originally Posted by His_blizzard View Post
    I tend to ramble on so I am going to try very hard to keep this brief.

    A Dominant and a submissive are both "real" when they have the true craving to be Dominant or submissive in their hearts and minds and souls , no matter what part of this lifestyle they chose to,or are able to embrace. Once a part of a D/s union of any kind, they are then honest, sincere, loving and respectfful of each other, as well as being understanding and tolerant of each others concerns, weaknesses, limits and fears. I know of many very loving and "real" online D/s realtionship where there is a very close and intense bond even though they may never meet, and I know some real life D/s unions that are nothing more than a cover for an abusive personality taking advantage of a weaker one under the guise of Dominant and submissive. In my humble opinion, a true Dominant AND a true submissive can be summed up in three words; one who is willing to treat the other with trust, honor and respect. "peace" ~blizz~

    For me Faith and Love are the 2 important constituents of any relationship,be it vanilla or bdsm or whatever.I agree that thedegree of physical closeness is immaterial,for today we tend to confuse physical intimacy with a whole lot of other things,but that's digressing..A "real" Dom-sub relationship needs a lot more faith and love to withstand the understandably more difficult period of navigation through the early phase,but I feel if you can live through that,you have the kind of love people just dream about,or maybe beyond that too.

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