himind,
Your very right it does take a lot more effort to make the life work. The life must be done with complete honesty also. Each day you must reaffirm that the love is there and growing.
In my opinion a real Dom is happy with himself and his life, if he isn't then the possibility for abuse is way to great.
Russell
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