Wecome Rhabbi,
Your post certainly makes me think too. As a sub who has only just discovered the lifestyle in the last year or so, I have only told one other person in my real life. It is a big step and has to be carefully thought out. I think too that you know the people you can tell, and those that are best left in the dark.
Good luck and I can see that the forums will provide a lot of support and fun for you.
Aussiegirl