Quote Originally Posted by esclava
I think of it as balance, but with the fulcrum being offset...I carry a heavier load, but he exerts more force.
That is very well put, esclava.

From a Dom's perspective, I can't see how the "training" period would ever end as I seem to continually be able to think of new variations for My sub. This is perhaps helped by the fact that I am also a sadist and enjoy giving her pain merely because I wish to do so. The occasions on which punishment or training are the reasons for My sub receiving pain are actually fairly few.

I doubt My sub would describe herself as well trained and while we aim to improve her submissive ways, this is not the reason for our relationship. Nikka's point about "learning and growing" is also valid for us.