Note: This is written from a male-dom/fem-sub point of view, for clarity and brevity.

I propose an interesting lifestyle dilemma, and wonder if any have experience with it… It appears to me that as a lifestyle submissive gets better and better the dominant must spend less and less time training her. This can certainly be delayed by becoming stricter, but as she asymptotically approaches ‘perfect’ there is less and less that needs to be done about training her, and she meanwhile spends more and more time thinking of and acting for him. It appears to me that this would result in an unbalanced, non-reciprocal relationship, where he is more important to her than she is to him. Does this happen? Why or why not? What can or should one do about it?