by ID
I hope it helps. In order for him to be Dom, you must present that you are willing to submit to him being Dom. A Dom without a sub is just a pushy asshole.
The very last thing anyone would call my husband is pushy. Now, a few people that work for him may call him an asshole, but that's because he's a very by-the-book type man. Some people prefer some flexibility at the work place, like showing up late every day, or not even showing up at all, and then expect him to be okay with that. But that's another topic entirely. Your words do help, ID. Very much so. Again, my thanks to you.


by tessa
That expert doesn't necessarily have to be male, I wouldn't think. My, the images that idea has spawned.

by Tom
Off course not. I'm no sexist. Slavery is also an art.
After reading over what I posted, I was worried that my words would be interpreted in a manner I didn't intend. I'd never call you sexist, Tom. I imagine that many words with 'sex' as the root portion apply to you, but definitely not the one with the suffix 'ist'. I was, in a way that didn't come across so well , sifting through the ideas your advice brought to mind. That's all. And in the wake of all the good insight, hopefully, I can start my own art project in the near future.

tessa