Quote Originally Posted by Aussiegirl1 View Post
Wlidfire,

Thank you so much for your input into this discussion, and you were NOT whining! In fact, I am sure you are echoing what so many subs have thought at one time or another!

As a relative newcomer to this world, I can understand your view. I have my moments when I wonder "if I don't want to do X that the mean I am not submissive, or if I need to say, that I am not sure about something, that it mean I am not submissive". I have been fortunate to be able discuss issues like this with my Doms and to come to a better understanding of myself because of it.

I do hope you try again to get your Dom to understand what you are feeling. It could be that he thinks you do just need encouragement. He may think you are doing a wonderful job, but it does sound like you need to hear that more from him. Maybe he has a certain reason for having you do these tasks, which he may think you understand, and you don't. PLEASE keep trying to get him to understand your feelings, and then at least you know you have tried your best. As I have been told many times, there are certainly a lot of new feelings you will feel while being submissive and the key is to feel them all and THEN COMMUNICATE them to your Dom.


Good luck and please feel free to PM me anytime, or at least continue to post so you can get some support and guidance.

((( hugs )))

Aussiegirl
OMG baby do we think alike! I told her all the same things in a PM including to contact you in a PM if she wanted to. I told her you were the greatest and you just proved it again. BIG BIG KISS