Quote Originally Posted by cariad<U_E> View Post
I would agree with those reasons, and add that if I know that I am likely to break a rule I try to always tell him first. This means that he remains in control of the situation, which we both like, and he has the option of helping me to keep to it or managing thngs in such a way that I don't break it.

cariad
Yes, being told in advance is the best. I'd get extremly angry if I'm not informed at the first possible oportunity when a slave finds herself i a situation when she has to break a rule. Witholding that information is for me a very serious breach of trust. We all have things we think is the most important, and this is mine.