It has been a while since I reviewed these but these are my standard house rules that I refine for the sub/slave to better fit her.

Always wear a smile

Always present a slight smile with your lips just slightly parted. If you come into direct contact with another person smile wider, always happy and always enthusiastic. This is all the time at home, at work, in the car, shopping and even walking down the street.


Be Proud

You are finally in your nature, your true self! If you have agreed to this life style you have come to terms with your spirit. Now you can truly be adored for that inner beauty. You are precious and I as your Master will be honoured by your submission. It will be an indication of our superior characteristics.

In all things, exhibit dignity. metered movements, not fast or jerky, not slow and sloppy but metered. Eyes opened and looking lovingly at your Master or the world we live in, but chin high. You are submissive and you are swollen with pride, glow from the reality it suggests.

In all things, be the best you can be, and be proud. This is not a suggestion, this is a command.


Honest in All Things

Be honest in all things large or small. Many a sub/slave has fallen to this trespass. Why have they fallen, truth be told they did not see that one small error in a tiny white lie could and often does snowball into many sometimes out of even the sub/slave’s control. Being honest in all things is a grace given that will be received by me, and thus given the same accord in your training. Dishonesty in any form is not only a breach of trust at the foundation level, but something that will be harshly punished at the very least if it does not leave you striped and fully released.


Elegance and Eroticism

Elegance and Eroticism are seemingly opposing and yet complimentary concepts.

To be sensually and sexually exciting but with great refinement and style is our goal.

I speak of this within our environment and in fact it is the careful balance of these concepts of style and wanton lust I value highly in my slave.

The brain being the most important sexual organ, you will be well advised to develop these skills.



Being Healthy for Master

Since your health is a prime concern of mine you will be expected to tell me about feeling ill. I will expect you to keep me informed of treatment and their level of success.


Willingness to Learn Masters Way

When I ask you to change in any way and you have agreed to it, I will expect you to do your best to comply. I will listen to your concerns, judge its merits, decide and then you must be willing to do it the way I require. Core changes will not be asked for if there is no real pressing need, These changes will take time and I will only be looking for progress toward the change.


Requesting a Day Off

You have the right to request a day off. Master reserves the right to refuse such a request if he has made commitments that require the your participation and you have agreed to it.


Collar of submission

Your collar will be worn at all times. You wear this collar as a reminder of your submission.

The collar is a symbol and its actual form is fluid and will be appropriate to the situation. You may change the actual physical form of your collar but you will always be in contact with it.

Grooming needs are the exception.


Cleansing your body and mind

I know you will present a clean willing body to me to use, abuse and love. Empty your mind of worldly things and fill your mind with the wonder of your submission and love of your Master.


Clothing

Your clothing you will select to be appropriate for each occasion but all ways with an eye to pleasing your Master, and within the dress code.


House wear

Your standard clothing for `private` wear is as follows:

Collar of submission
Any of the outfits I have all ready seen and approved of including sexy nighties
YOU WILL BE EXPECTED TO ADD TO YOUR WARDRODE AS FINANCES ALLOW THE FOLLOWING:
Open nipple bra or demi-cup
Garter belt or harness
Stockings or Thigh Highs unless specifically allowed to wear socks, never wear panty hose without my direct command
Heels for normal usage these heels can be as little as an inch but I reserve the right to request higher heels or even high-heeled boots
You may wear a short translucent or lace (see through) skirt if you desire.
I may request different wear for sessions or to suit my mood.


Bring home a sub

From time to time you will encounter someone who wishes to be a submissive or wants further information on serving. You will of course invite, with Sir Russell’s approval, them to spend time with Master. If they wish to be a sub, you will instruct them on how to behave properly in Sir Russell’s presence. You shall also instruct them that I am not looking for a sub or slave to own, that you are my one and only one.

They will be instructed to kneel in my presence and not to sit on furniture unless directed by Sir Russell. They will be instructed on properly addressing Sir Russell. They will be assured that service requested by Sir Russell will be preformed only if they desire to perform and comply. Their refusal to perform will terminate any session with Sir Russell and can continue only on a friendly basis if Sir Russell permits.

As slave to Sir Russell you will always be looking for potential subs and Doms to introduce to the lifestyle.


Sex in Public

When away from home there will be times when Sir Russell will command you to perform a sexual task, this must be performed with no resistance. It may be a task you will perform on him or it maybe one that he performs on you. It could even be one that is done together or with friends. You will perform with no concern about being viewed by others. Your only concern will be pleasing Sir Russell in what ever manner he has requested

A standing house rule is that when driving alone with Sir Russell you will offer to suck his cock. Sir Russell may require you to be naked for long car trips alone with him.


Sleeping with Master

You will be allowed to sleep with Sir Russell in his bed and allowed to smuggle with him.


Sitting at Master’s Feet

When tasks are finished or at Sir Russell’s command you will quietly enter the room where Sir Russell is, ask if there is anything he wants you to do. When Sir Russell indicates that you are finished you shall sit at his feet and place your head in his lap.


Sir Russell says - Kneel wench

When I say "Kneel wench" wherever you are and whatever you are doing, you are to safely and swiftly move to your Master, if I am seated you will go to my front to the side of my legs and feet quickly kneel, if I am standing you will go to my front of feet, in both cases your eyes will be directed to my cock and your hands will be behind your back. You will remain there long enough for me to touch your head or face, never long enough to cause discomfort unless being punished.


Nudity on Demand

When Sir Russell commands you to be nude to any extent you will disrobe to that extent. To complain or beg or delay will only earn a serious punishment.

If Sir Russell chooses to inspect your body you will allow it and place your body in whatever positions Sir Russell requests.


When alone with Master

When alone with me you will, when not otherwise instructed, join me in the bed. You will keep your breasts available to be touched, caressed, squeezed and nipple pinched at my sole discretion.

Sir Russell may at any time use your hair to guide you in whatever manner or pleasure he wishes you to perform. No verbal command needs to be given and you will be expected to understand his wants and perform.


Smooth for Master

When you are physically with Sir Russell you will be required to be hairless everywhere but on your head. You may do this by shaving, waxing, lasering or any other method that leaves you smooth and hairless. You will apply lotion at least once a day to all affected areas.

You will be required upon command from Sir Russell to display hairless areas at his discretion. You will take pride in displaying yourself to show your submissiveness to him.


Washing for Master

You shall wash your self before any session with Sir Russell unless directly order otherwise. Your natural clean sent is all that you will be allowed. You will pay particular attention to your mouth, breasts, neck, pussy and ass since these areas are favorites of your Master.

You will completely wash your self at least once a day for hygiene and to please me. Use of perfumes in his presence will only be at Master’s direct command.


Walking with Master in public

When walking with Sir Russell in public you will always be in physical contact with him. You will hold onto his arm unless he offers you his hand to hold, or commands you to perform differently.

Since I do not believe that slave need to walk three steps behind that will only be used as punishment. When being punished you will not be allowed to touch my person and will be required to walk directly behind me with eyes down.


Sharing the Master

If Sir Russell commands you to share another slave, sub and/or guest with him, you will focus all your talents on giving pleasure to all involved without hesitation, abandoning any inhibitions. You will only be concerned about using all forms of sex on each person with the exclusion of anal sex.

I exclusively reserve the right to offer you to others but never will without direct discussion with and approval from you.


Accept punishment

You will be expected to accept punishment without resistance.

The reason for this punishment will be fully explained by me and then you will respond to explanation with "Thank you, Master".

Upon completion of the punishment you will say "Thank You Master".

Refusal of any punishment will immediately stop all BDSM life styling or activities. If punishment is not voluntarily accepted after a time you will be released.

Climaxing

You are never to climax without permission!

When you climax you will do so as loudly as possible under the circumstances. After each climax you will say “Thank you my Master for my climax”, after each one no matter if I am with you or not, or if you are building to another. The only exception to this rule is when my cock is in your mouth and then you will moan as loudly as you can to both excite me and to let me know you have climaxed. As soon as my cock is out of your mouth you will give the required thanks.

You are to learn to respond with your whole body as you climax, holding nothing back letting your energy flow to the furtherest extremities.


Hope this helps someone, they are my requirements but all rules are part of the negotiation process leading to the Domination/submission contract.