Rhabbi and I are only online and will remain so. As with fantassy our D/s experience is mainly a mental one. I think it would be lovely to have both mental, physical and offline. The success of it is based on the personalities involved. One online relationship that doesn't work doesn't mean all of them won't work, and any combination thereof. What's involved is as diverse as the vanilla world. It's not the place, it's the people.