Well thats a hard question to give a thoughtful and insitetive answer.Well as allways i would say exercise caution when meeting anyone from this wonderful thing we call the on-line world.As for myself i met my wife/little slut on line but not through and bdsm/ d&s site.I have allways had dom tendencies and I put that in the closet till she announced she wanted to be submissive so in short i am a lucky mother fucker hehe