Glad to share, WS.
You're welcome, Russell.

I wanted to add another "rule" I had to follow with the first Dom i was really engaged in (although it was online and phone until i finally met him and spent three beautiful days in almost-heaven with him)-
i was a smoker at the time (well, i still am but took a 2yr hiatus when i was pregnant and breast-feeding) and everytime i wanted to have a cigarette, i was to ask permission. This may seem like a small thing, BUT, it definitely was not. He was very intuitive to command this. I mean, imagine having to suddenly ask someone permission to do something you do normally without a thought (i guess this would apply to any small task)... it was very difficult to give up that control and in fact, most of the time I chose to not smoke at all rather than have to ask! Which I think he may have surmised I would do- making this order even more insightful because then i smoked a lot less.

Sorry if i rambled, but it was something about which i had completely forgotten until i started thinking more on this question of "rules".