I was lurking around in another site when someone - a Dom - contacted me because of a comment I made about my neck of the woods. Turns out we're in the same city. He was polite, simply conversational, not sexual at all and his purprose for talking with me was to see if I wanted to join a local group. He's had his sub IM me and we've talked a couple of times. I'm meeting her first for coffee sometime this week.

This is definitely nothing I expected to do this early but there you go! I'm a little nervous but so far, everything seems fairly low key and not moving too fast.