Hey, just joined the forum today. I am getting married in May and i was extremely lucky that my fiancee was interested in exploring BDSM with me. We've been together for a bit more than two years. Since I did get lucky in this manner for me online relationship, I feel, are out of the question since he does fufill all of my needs. However, I agree with tainted angel in that if an online relationship is required to have that part of you be expressed than honesty and communication would be a mandatory requirement