Are all dominant women in it for money?

[kittenfemme]

"Hey baby, can I buy you a drink? And by the way, I'd like to take you home, handcuff you, put a spreader between your ankles, stick a dildoe in your snatch and a butt plug in your ass and then whip you until I get tired before cumming on your face while I pull your hair and twist your nipples until you scream!"

Heh, you're not going to the right fetish clubs MrJerseyGuy! Hell, just reading that made me a little excited. I can imagine what it would do to me if someone I found attractive walked up to me in a kink club and told me all of that. *purr*

Hello let me start off by saying i am very new to this lifestyle. I recently borke up with my very vanilla girlfriend and was looking for a dominent woman who would interested in a relationshiop. Well i went surfing the internet for a long time and the only thing i seem to be able to find was women who charge for there services. It is not so much just the money as the fact that i do not want to be trained by a women who is looking at it as her "job".

I had came across this website and along with some interesting stories, you seem to have a very friendly and informative forum. I was hoping i could get some advice on meeting real women who are into the lifestyle.

I've only known one proDomme personally. She was very good at what she did. I knew her before she went pro and she didn't ask for a penny from me when I served her. In fact, she insisted on paying for everything when we went out. She bought all the toys. She even bought some of my clothes.

Most of my former Dommes have been like that. My current Mistress is the same way. She has me put aside a little $$ to use for clothing and other things related to kink but won't let me use it unless I keep the items and they directly benefit me or we need them for a scene. I've offered to give her use of the funds several times. She turned me down every time.

So no YoungBlood, not all dominant women are in it for the $$. The vast majority of those I've known have been just as proud as I am to pay their own way.