My sincere regrets for you on your break-up. It has to be a deep hurt. Seems he added to it all by the way he left. I don't wish to be offensive or disrespectful in any way, but it seems to me that he was being petty and just plain mean. Taking those items without even getting your input and discussing how it might affect you is just wrong, on so many levels. I can appreciate that emotions were running in high gear, but he should have waited until things calmed down then perhaps been decent enough to ask about it all? As for the toys, those were gifts, very personal gifts. You don't take those back!And maybe you wanted to keep the collar, maybe you wanted to throw it in his face, I don't know. But it was your collar. My opinion, I don't think he had the right to take it from you. No surprise you got pissed. But please don't stay angry. Not at him anyway. Use your feelings on something much more worth you, okay?

I imagine these words don't help the hurt so much. I wish they could.

~hug~
tessa