*gentle warm hug* So sorry to hear about your break-up. There aren't any words to say to take away the heart ache you must be experiencing. I can only hope that time will gently ease the pain.

I have to agree with what has already been said though, gifts are just that...gifts. You don't take them back regardless of what happens later in the relationship. If he had been keeping things at your place that belonged to him, then yes, he would have the right to take them (such as gifts that you had presented to him).

IMO, it is extremely bad taste and very immature to take back a gift that has been given to someone. If it were something very sentimental (such as a collar), it should be discussed between both parties to decide who should be the one to keep it. Despite how he may have been feeling at that time, his behavior was selfish, cruel and heartless.

*sigh*