First off, totally off topic of my thread here, but i want to say how much i love this place. I think it is so great how how we can all have different opinions or view points on things but we still all can respect each other and where people are coming from even if we don't agree. And thank you all so much for the support and warm words. I think if he just took the collar i would be more hurt, but because he had to bring it to a level of taking other things i am thinking either he wanted to piss me off or hurt me which is not something i am looking for. I am wondering what he will do with everything he took, including the collar. What could someone do with such things, as some of you have said, i really hope not offer it to another girl (that would just be sad).