The traditional introductory post

[DrGeordie]

welcome doc I need to tell you that some people's mistakes in this life style are other people's getting it right.

I preach that you have to listen, question, and plan to be safe, sane, sensual and consensual. Look around ask question, you will be amazed at the number and differing responses you will receive.

Russell

Thanks for the advice. Mistake might be the wrong word. The problem was that I was with a person who wasn't interested in a D/s lifestyle. She tried it for a while for my benefit but ultimately we just wanted different things. We've since gone our separate ways quite amicably and we're still good friends. Something I never thought possible previously