Sir_Russell,
As far as dealing with this lack of trust and faith for not jumping on a plane to live with her,if I were in your shoes I would point out the fact that taking care of things prior to departing is a sign of a mature,responsible adult.Clearly you have obligations and responsibilities in your present situation which require time and attention prior to pulling up stakes and moving West.Long term would she want a dominant that is impulsive or one that honors obligations and committments?
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Thank you tessa and echoes

I still plan to go to Co if she is still willing once I have things taken care of here. It does help to know someone else is concerned. I know that she is the one for me and I do miss her terribly. I just don't know how to deal with her lack of trust and faith in me just because I have not jumped a plane to live with her.

Oh well here is my thanks to you for listening and being a good friend, tessa thank you and echoes know that I will help you any way I can.

Russell