So glad this got bumped back up! The subjects, both of them now, interest me to no end.

Quote Originally Posted by Psynymph
And i just got a bit frustrated because i just flat out could not comprehend how she could give her submission so easily, so completely, to so many different Doms.
Ok, I don't get frustrated about it, but I can't comprehend it either, for Dom or sub. But for me, it's a trust issue. I mena, good grief! It took me almost 15 years to trust my husband enough to come to him with my submissiveness (and that has everything to do with me and my issues and nothing to do with my husband since he's as good as it gets). But if I try really, really hard, I can almost imagine that if trust doesn't have to be an issue, having more than one Dom would afford someone the chance learn from different perspectives. Which could be a positive.

in my world, my submission is almost something to be earned.
In my world, my complete submission borders on sacred. I hold it very close and deep. Some might say, "why do you take it all so seriously?" Because I do. That's my way. If another's way is to be open with more than one, great for them. My take on it all is that we are all different and we all enjoy different ways of doing things. If the relationship, for those involved, works to build up rather than tear down, go for it and squeeze every drop of wonderful out of it that can be had. I don't have to understand it to appreciate it.

~thinks on a few certain things and decides to add something~ At least in this case.